Chemistry

When we find a person that we connect with we want to know so much about them. We are hit with the greatest chemistry from the other person and it is an exploration of feelings. 

How do we know what the best chemistry in relationships are? Some do not believe that there is such a thing of falling in love or that chemistry even plays apart in any relationship but the truth is, it is a strong and powerful emotion and it does come from chemistry. These are true  feelings where you totally lose your appetite and do not feel like eating at all. Oddly enough we have those feelings when we find each other and when we lose each other.

In the beginning you feel that your soul mate is true and most desirable kind of love, friend and the most important person in your life. 

I think when it comes to relationships that the attraction towards each other comes out of the chemistry of falling in love. The man or the woman would know for sure when it is there soul mate or not, depending on the development of the relationship.

"Lust: The sex drive is combined with a class of hormones called androgens, particularly testosterone, women also produced it.

Trust: The chemical oxytocin orchestrates feelings of trust and to be attached towards each other.

Love: Dopamine is the third chemical that orchestrates love in relationships; this is a key player in the brain’s pleasure center that’s been found to promote romantic love."

Each of us at some point had the sweaty palms, our tummy's had butterflies and turned somersaults, had goosebumps all over our body and our hearts were racing with many different but amazing feelings, when it comes to falling in love. 

We cannot rely on that butterfly feeling all the time because at times there will be moments of disagreements and sadness.  Relationships do evolve and mature so we have to be careful not to get stuck in this pattern of romantic love.  The feeling of love, the excitement and enjoyment it brings many emotions and sometimes heartache. 

They say relationships are not design to last forever. It usually fades away over time for whatever the reason, it is important and we need to be strong and secure or we will never be able to mature in our relationships and learn how to take it to the next level.

Milky