Let love find you

Both women and men deserve love and respect. Some women and men show their romantic side easily because it is not complicated.  However, there are many others that cannot show what they feel. Sometimes, romance needs to be sweet and unique but also passionate and oddly dirty. Dirty love? Dirty romance? When I dirty I guess I mean raw right from the heart and not holding back. It is the 3am wake to intimate kisses and those led to others intimate pleasures. The simplicity of love and romance goes beyond the flowers, chocolate and date nights. When one person tells another person "I love you" for the first, they may feel confused and have concerns on how to tell the person they love in fear that it may have not been romantic. The thing is we all trip over our own words when it comes to confessing our love. May be we cannot find the right time or moment to say I love you.

Encouragement needs to be present for one another and you both want to feel like he/she is the only one for you. Showing one another how important they are, telling them that they are everything they ever wanted and so much more, is encouraging. A woman sometimes desires more out of a relationship because they are able to show their feelings of love with words or by actions. Remember actions speak louder than words. For some men this is not an easy thing but what may surprise you is that there are some women who have trouble showing how they feel or show their love.


In the end both men and woman want to be loved and to be shown love. Give it a try what could be worse? I know! Doing nothing! Let love find you, your moments and let love fill each day with some much more then the average day to day schedule. never stop showing or expressing you love because time is short. Tell that person just how much you love them. 


A Love letter. A letter expressing words of love can speak volumes to anyone's heart. It truly does not matter if the letter is corny or not because the only thing that does matter is that you have put your own words down. Every word of the letter is coming from your heart. It can be simple or in depth and the words may even trip over each other but it is written with words from your heart. Letters are a way to write spoken words beautifully and from the heart. It is a simple way to express your love or to tell you love how much you miss them and/or how important they are to you. Expressions of love sometimes do not come out right but when written down it can be everything and more.

The mood is everything. Light a few candles, and play some romantic music are the perfect mood setters to set the romantic mood for romance. You want to remember the moments you share together. The moment you speak those three words, you will want it to be special. The mood to tell someone you love them is a moment in time to remember. You don not want just any mood to be romantic and to romance your love.


Food always speaks to the heart, especially sweets. Whatever the favorite dessert may be, decorate it with  favorite candy, spelling out the three special words. This is definitely corny but it will be fun and you could tease each other because being serious all the time is boring. Sweets are yummy to the tummy. Also, unique cuisines are a remarkable trait to show each other how much you love them. Knowing what foods the other likes and cooking up a storm shows how much you know them and how you would like to take interest in what they like to eat. Food is a key to a romantic evening and to heart of the tummy.


However you decide to tell the person you love be sure it is a special memory for both of you to cherish for a long time. Showing each other love is special and should not be shown only on a special day, it should be shown often. It should be sweet and memorable. Always remember the details of the moment you told each other for the first time and everytime.


There are many ways to express your love for the first time. If you truly want to amaze yourself, put some thought and effort into the moment. The moment is everything. Be yourself.

Milky